Sunday, July 13, 2008

Your own ways to love...

Firstly, as I said before, I am not going to write posts that limit to certain people's understanding... Hence, it is not going to be personal for my weekly post... Hehe, I'd rather make it a discussion... And I am going to talk about couple love... Nothing to do with parental love and all that...What actually initiate me to write about this topic? There is this close friend of mine... Who I actually know not much about his relationships with girls... As we seldom talk about it... But still we talk a little... He once told me that, he is actually going after one girl that is elder than him... Someone that I don't know... Well, I prayed for him... But later on, when new members joined our community... He starts to pay attention to one of them... This is the conversation between us after that...

Me: Ohh, who is that? Falling into a new girl already huh?
He: No lah... Actually there are two of them... One in here, another one in KL... The KL one I have more confidence... This one cannot...

I don't know about others, I thought we should always loyal to the one we love... No matter the relationship is started or not... Or maybe I'm wrong? So people can actually have a few targets at the same time? There is also another female friend of mine... Her ex-boyfriend starts another relationship with another girl right after breaking up with her... So even when you are in relationship with others, you can still actually have targets huh? Wakarimasen...

Let's talk about another friend of mine, Mr. A... (Suddenly realize I have many friends, lolz...) He broke up with his ex about one year before he starts another relationship with my friend, Miss B... They were alright until one day actually Mr. A met his ex with another boy... He feels painful in the heart, he said... Then later, he broke up with Miss B, claiming that it is not fair for her when he still got another girl in his heart... When the first time he told me, I said that it is normal to feel painful, this is just aftermath... And I even scolded him stupid, as Miss B is my friend as well, she is quite a good girl... Months later, our conversation...

Me: New girls coming in wor, got target?
A : No lah, you also know I got mine d lah...
Me: Your ex-ex? Still belum mati hati? I thought you said she got new boy friend d?
A : Ya lah, but I will wait lah...
Me: Wait? Later people get married leh?
A : Wait until they divorce...

Who do you think is stupid now?

There are so many ways to love actually, it is personal, I am not saying this is right or this is wrong... There is no right or wrong in love... It all depends on yourself...

Lets assume my blog actually got readers, what do you all think? Comment please, thank you.. I would like more opinions on this...

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

i got question...if u always think about one person..什么意思

TnT said...

It depends le... But surely that person is giving quite big impact to you... Love, hatred, etc... Surely not indifferent... And this question is so weird... Y ask me? Fato...